You cause pain to the people you outgrow, when you stay attached to them.
Love without attachment is the purest love. Since it’s about what you can give others because you’re already full.
Love requires vulnerability. You truly have to give the other person the ability to hurt you IF you want to connect with them on a level beyond the superficial. The only thing you can do is work on your discernment and curate a list of deal-breakers to lessen your chances of getting burned. But ultimately you have to be vulnerable. Heartbreak is ultimately inevitable though, and wolves in sheep’s clothing are everywhere. This is life.
don’t attach it to anything nor anyone— freedom is gripping the pursuit with your own hands, even if they hurt. even if they bleed. the more you access this picture, the sturdier your frame becomes. you’ll be happier. your relationships, stronger. watch it make sense.
Attachment is poison to the heart. Learning to love without the need to be attached is challenging, yet rewarding and fulfilling of true loves destiny. Attachment is misery. Whenever we get our hearts broken the first thing we want to do is detach from the emotion, to get rid of the pain. There are several remedies to get over broke hearts but the one that works the most is time. Time is healing! Insecurity and jealousy is a form of attachment. Self love is the key to healing the broken spirits of the soul. Pain teaches you but only if you came to learn.